Last week, Alan… along with his bride Pauly Heller… and Dr. Ed Delph, the authors of the book, Learning How to Trust, talked about the difference between trust and forgiveness.
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Forgiveness Versus Trust
Welcome to Walking Our Talk with Alan Heller. I’m Dustin Daniels. Last week, Alan along with his bride Pauly Heller and Dr. Ed Delph, the authors of the book, Learning How to Trust, were discussing the first step of regaining trust - “to remember.” This week we...
Transitions – How do we Navigate Them?
What do you do when you did not plan the transition you are going through? How do you deal with your past issues of transitions? Biblical examples of how people in the Bible navigated transitions.
Putting On, Putting Off
What are the ingredients we need to put on so we can live out our Christian life?
Learning to Trust People
How do we trust those who have violated our trust? What do you do with those who constantly violate your trust?
Do you Have the Real Thing?
Don’t let others disqualify you. What is the difference between man’s wisdom vs God’s wisdom? How do we fight against our flesh and wrong desires?
Learning How to Trust God
This message helps you see what it takes to trust the Lord even when things don’t work out. I give illustrations for my own life of how I learned to trust including going through the death of our 32-year-old son.
Why is Non-sexual Touch Important in Marriage?
This week on Walking Our Talk, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss the importance of nonsexual touch in marriage. Physical contact is absolutely essential in building the emotion of love. In fact, most people crave that level of emotional intimacy. Learn to kindle the flame...
Sexual Addiction and Trust Triggers | Part 3
WARNING: THIS EPISODE IS NOT APPROPRIATE FOR CHILDREN This week, we're talking to the founders of REVIVE40, an organization that has changed the lives of people who struggle with sexual addiction and saved marriages. Recovery can be a long process, but you don't have...
Dealing with the Battle of Sexual Addiction and Technology | Part 2
WARNING: THIS PODCAST IS NOT SUITABLE FOR CHILDREN.The ease of accessing technology makes rehabilitation from sexual addiction a constant battle. It's not just a problem for men; women face some of the same struggles. You are not alone. Listen to this week's podcast...
How Do You Deal With Addiction? | Part 1
Warning: This podcast is not suitable for children. This week, we have special guests to help break down a common problem in today's world - sexual addiction. Revive 40 is a support group for those walking through life with these issues. Learn more about the ministry...
The Importance of SMART Goals Marriage
Last week, we discussed the definition of SMART goals. SMART goals are great for long-term financial goals and career goals, but they're even more important in marriage. SMART goals allow you and your spouse to make simple or complex goals easier. Learn the importance...
How to Make SMART Goals
It's important to ensure that you're making goals that will add value to your relationships. The term "SMART goals" is an acronym that acts as a reminder to make goals that are specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-sensitive.
More on Our Physical Relationship in Marriage
WARNING: THIS PODCAST IS NOT SUITABLE FOR CHILDREN.This week, we're diving deeper into the value of our physical relationship in marriage. It's important not to use the physical part of your relationship as a weapon and even more important to have a healthy...
Completeness – Finding God’s design in our Physical Relationship in Marriage
WARNING: THIS PODCAST IS NOT SUITABLE FOR CHILDREN Last week, we talked about the importance of having a spiritual relationship with both our spouse and God. In this week's podcast, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss Completeness Things to make you smile in the bedroom....
Tips for true intimacy and closeness with each other
In this week's podcast, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss tips for intimacy with each other and many of them are outside the bedroom. Prayer with one another and non-sexual touching are both important parts of this equation. Listen to this week's podcast and see what will...
More on the Importance of Praying as a Couple
There’s a reason we are still talking about prayer. In this week’s episode of Walking Our Talk, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss how praying together helps you develop trust that strengthens your bonds of intimacy with each other and with God. Learn more about the...
Why Should You Value Your Mate?
In this week's episode, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss why you should truly value one another. Do you ever take your spouse for granted? Do you shut them off when you don't agree with them? Valuing your partner means you listen to them and allow them to share all parts...
The Importance of Praying as a Couple
In this week’s episode of Walking Our Talk, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss that prayer is not only talking to God, but it’s also listening to Him. One of the greatest benefits of praying as a couple, is the intimacy involved when we talk to the Lord together. You learn...
How to Value Your Spouse
Alan and Pauly Heller discuss the importance of value in marriage. If you're not being valued, there can be negative reactions. Learn more about how to show your partner that you truly value them.
Closing The Loop With Your Partner
What will help you and your spouse close the loop and truly understand each other? All couples fight, but not all couples fight affectively. Listen to this week's podcast to learn how to "fight right".