Is your partner acting like a porcupine? And, how do you attempt to hug a porcupine?... VERY carefully. What do you do when all the quills are out and they want to be comforted yet, they are prickly? Great question! And one we are going to answer in this week's...
Marriage
Valentine’s Day Advice: How to Celebrate Valentine’s Day
What is love? Take the time to renew your vows to one another. Tell each other how much you mean, and show it through acts of love that your partner would enjoy. In this week’s podcast, Alan and Pauly are still walking their talk after 45 years, and we hope you will...
Pauly’s Testimony | Part 2
We know we left you hanging with part 1 of Pauly's story. Don't worry! Part 2 is here! She was kicked off the gymnastics team in college, then what happens? Pauly spent time wondering what she wanted to do with her life and who she wanted to be. Learn more in this...
Pauly’s Testimony | Part 1
You’ve heard from Pauly on many episodes of Walking Our Talk – but do you know her story? This week, you can not only listen to the podcast on Pauly’s testimony but also, watch the recording to get up close in personal with the recording of Pauly’s story by watching the video!
Forgiveness Versus Trust
Welcome to Walking Our Talk with Alan Heller. I’m Dustin Daniels. Last week, Alan along with his bride Pauly Heller and Dr. Ed Delph, the authors of the book, Learning How to Trust, were discussing the first step of regaining trust - “to remember.” This week we...
Why is Non-sexual Touch Important in Marriage?
This week on Walking Our Talk, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss the importance of nonsexual touch in marriage. Physical contact is absolutely essential in building the emotion of love. In fact, most people crave that level of emotional intimacy. Learn to kindle the flame...
Sexual Addiction and Trust Triggers | Part 3
WARNING: THIS EPISODE IS NOT APPROPRIATE FOR CHILDREN This week, we're talking to the founders of REVIVE40, an organization that has changed the lives of people who struggle with sexual addiction and saved marriages. Recovery can be a long process, but you don't have...
Dealing with the Battle of Sexual Addiction and Technology | Part 2
WARNING: THIS PODCAST IS NOT SUITABLE FOR CHILDREN.The ease of accessing technology makes rehabilitation from sexual addiction a constant battle. It's not just a problem for men; women face some of the same struggles. You are not alone. Listen to this week's podcast...
How Do You Deal With Addiction? | Part 1
Warning: This podcast is not suitable for children. This week, we have special guests to help break down a common problem in today's world - sexual addiction. Revive 40 is a support group for those walking through life with these issues. Learn more about the ministry...
The Importance of SMART Goals Marriage
Last week, we discussed the definition of SMART goals. SMART goals are great for long-term financial goals and career goals, but they're even more important in marriage. SMART goals allow you and your spouse to make simple or complex goals easier. Learn the importance...
More on Our Physical Relationship in Marriage
WARNING: THIS PODCAST IS NOT SUITABLE FOR CHILDREN.This week, we're diving deeper into the value of our physical relationship in marriage. It's important not to use the physical part of your relationship as a weapon and even more important to have a healthy...
Completeness – Finding God’s design in our Physical Relationship in Marriage
WARNING: THIS PODCAST IS NOT SUITABLE FOR CHILDREN Last week, we talked about the importance of having a spiritual relationship with both our spouse and God. In this week's podcast, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss Completeness Things to make you smile in the bedroom....
Tips for true intimacy and closeness with each other
In this week's podcast, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss tips for intimacy with each other and many of them are outside the bedroom. Prayer with one another and non-sexual touching are both important parts of this equation. Listen to this week's podcast and see what will...
More on the Importance of Praying as a Couple
There’s a reason we are still talking about prayer. In this week’s episode of Walking Our Talk, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss how praying together helps you develop trust that strengthens your bonds of intimacy with each other and with God. Learn more about the...
Why Should You Value Your Mate?
In this week's episode, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss why you should truly value one another. Do you ever take your spouse for granted? Do you shut them off when you don't agree with them? Valuing your partner means you listen to them and allow them to share all parts...
The Importance of Praying as a Couple
In this week’s episode of Walking Our Talk, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss that prayer is not only talking to God, but it’s also listening to Him. One of the greatest benefits of praying as a couple, is the intimacy involved when we talk to the Lord together. You learn...
How to Value Your Spouse
Alan and Pauly Heller discuss the importance of value in marriage. If you're not being valued, there can be negative reactions. Learn more about how to show your partner that you truly value them.
Closing The Loop With Your Partner
What will help you and your spouse close the loop and truly understand each other? All couples fight, but not all couples fight affectively. Listen to this week's podcast to learn how to "fight right".
How Trials Affect Your Marriage
How do trials affect your marriage? There are many external issues that cause conflicts. Learn healthy ways to navigate these experiences by listening to this week's podcast!
More on Communication in Marriage
In this week's episode of Walking Our Talk, Alan and Pauly Heller continue to discuss the importance of communication in marriage. They have a tool for listening and speaking called the Communistar that will be of great help in your conversation.
Communication in Marriage
In this week's episode of Walking Our Talk, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss the importance of communication in marriage. Often times, communication issues rise from simple misunderstandings. Learn how to resolve these issues by learning this new skill set.