It is so important to write down your goals because it is so easy to forget what you said you were going to do. Personal goals seem to be harder in comparison to work goals, which are tied to money, time and demands of a job, which provide built-in accountability. Review each area and write down your goals in each.
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Marriage Minute with Alan Heller – Refresh your Marriage
Recreation, Romance, and Renewal. Time to play, time to pray about goals, and focus your lives individually and together. Couples should make time to have a romantic candlelight dinner and some fireworks in the bedroom without kids or chores. Over years of Christian couples and life coaching, we have found that a Triple R Weekend will refresh your marriage.
Marriage Minute with Alan Heller – Financial Harmony
“Financial” refers to the source of provision for the needs of your family. This section includes discussion around your income, learning to be content with what you have, learning how to be abased and to abound, stewardship, budget planning to stay debt-free, a giving plan with which the couple agrees, investing, finding financial harmony within your family, and emergency financial planning.
Marriage Minute with Alan Heller – Social Balance
This segment highlights the social balance in ministry and family relationships. This includes: keeping relationships in proper priority, mutual accountability, being involved in a local body, being involved in people’s lives, using our spiritual gifts, reaching out to non-Christians, humor and the ability to have fun and involvement in your community.
Marriage Minute with Alan Heller – Physical Health
This segment is focused on the wholesome acceptance of the way God made you: on an adequate, well-balanced diet, free from gluttony, sexual purity, proper personal hygiene, proper exercise (especially emphasizing cardiovascular fitness to avoid unnecessary risk of heart attack), adequate sleep, freedom from laziness and freedom from drunkenness.
Marriage Minute with Alan Heller – Goal Setting
Write down all 7 segments and your corresponding goals. Then, pick your top two goals to accomplish this year. No need to feel overwhelmed by all seven areas. Once you accomplish your top two goals, try two more.
Marriage Minute with Alan Heller – Couples Counseling
Over years of Christian couples counseling, we have found it helpful to view life in segments and make goals in each segment that matches Christian biblical principles. You can keep a balanced life if you tend to the garden of each of these 7 areas. I will explain each one in more detail as the counseling videos progress.
Dr. John Trent’s Endorsement of Walk and Talk
The Wagner’s Testimony
Steve and Marla have been associated with Alan for over 27 years. Hear their story.
The Heller’s Story – Death of Their Son
The Hellers lost their 32-year-old son to colorectal cancer a number of years ago. And have made it back into ministry through a tough battle.
A Pastor’s Point of View
Dennis shares on his outstanding relationship with Alan and Walk and Talk.
Active Listening
Valuing
Expectations
Close The Loop
How You Say What You Say – Video Podcast
Responsibility In Conversation
Communistar – Video Podcast
Marital Mystery Tour Preview
Is your marriage a mystery to you? Well you're in good company! Marriage is indeed a mystery, but Alan and Pauly Heller are here to help you decode it. This video is a preview from the first of five sessions that the Heller's present on the topic of marriage. Called...
Parenting is Heart Work
In this video Alan speaks on the topic of Parenting. While most parents will agree that parenting is HARD work, many may not understand that it is also HEART work. Watch and listen as Alan helps parents better parent their children.