All of us face the need to forgive someone in our lives. Whether you're looking for forgiveness for yourself or need to forgive someone else, it's often easier said than done. Listen to this week's podcast to learn more about how to find forgiveness in all your...
Marriage Counseling
Attitudes of a Disciple
Last week, we talked about the importance of loving your neighbor as a disciple. A disciple is to be F.A.T - faithful, available, and teachable. Learn more about the attitudes of a disciple in this week's podcast.Note: Below is a transcription of this week's podcast....
Forgiveness Versus Trust
Welcome to Walking Our Talk with Alan Heller. I’m Dustin Daniels. Last week, Alan along with his bride Pauly Heller and Dr. Ed Delph, the authors of the book, Learning How to Trust, were discussing the first step of regaining trust - “to remember.” This week we...
Why is Non-sexual Touch Important in Marriage?
This week on Walking Our Talk, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss the importance of nonsexual touch in marriage. Physical contact is absolutely essential in building the emotion of love. In fact, most people crave that level of emotional intimacy. Learn to kindle the flame...
Sexual Addiction and Trust Triggers | Part 3
WARNING: THIS EPISODE IS NOT APPROPRIATE FOR CHILDREN This week, we're talking to the founders of REVIVE40, an organization that has changed the lives of people who struggle with sexual addiction and saved marriages. Recovery can be a long process, but you don't have...
Dealing with the Battle of Sexual Addiction and Technology | Part 2
WARNING: THIS PODCAST IS NOT SUITABLE FOR CHILDREN.The ease of accessing technology makes rehabilitation from sexual addiction a constant battle. It's not just a problem for men; women face some of the same struggles. You are not alone. Listen to this week's podcast...
How Do You Deal With Addiction? | Part 1
Warning: This podcast is not suitable for children. This week, we have special guests to help break down a common problem in today's world - sexual addiction. Revive 40 is a support group for those walking through life with these issues. Learn more about the ministry...
The Importance of SMART Goals Marriage
Last week, we discussed the definition of SMART goals. SMART goals are great for long-term financial goals and career goals, but they're even more important in marriage. SMART goals allow you and your spouse to make simple or complex goals easier. Learn the importance...
More on Our Physical Relationship in Marriage
WARNING: THIS PODCAST IS NOT SUITABLE FOR CHILDREN.This week, we're diving deeper into the value of our physical relationship in marriage. It's important not to use the physical part of your relationship as a weapon and even more important to have a healthy...
Completeness – Finding God’s design in our Physical Relationship in Marriage
WARNING: THIS PODCAST IS NOT SUITABLE FOR CHILDREN Last week, we talked about the importance of having a spiritual relationship with both our spouse and God. In this week's podcast, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss Completeness Things to make you smile in the bedroom....
Tips for true intimacy and closeness with each other
In this week's podcast, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss tips for intimacy with each other and many of them are outside the bedroom. Prayer with one another and non-sexual touching are both important parts of this equation. Listen to this week's podcast and see what will...
Why Should You Value Your Mate?
In this week's episode, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss why you should truly value one another. Do you ever take your spouse for granted? Do you shut them off when you don't agree with them? Valuing your partner means you listen to them and allow them to share all parts...
How to Value Your Spouse
Alan and Pauly Heller discuss the importance of value in marriage. If you're not being valued, there can be negative reactions. Learn more about how to show your partner that you truly value them.
Closing The Loop With Your Partner
What will help you and your spouse close the loop and truly understand each other? All couples fight, but not all couples fight affectively. Listen to this week's podcast to learn how to "fight right".
How Trials Affect Your Marriage
How do trials affect your marriage? There are many external issues that cause conflicts. Learn healthy ways to navigate these experiences by listening to this week's podcast!
More on Communication in Marriage
In this week's episode of Walking Our Talk, Alan and Pauly Heller continue to discuss the importance of communication in marriage. They have a tool for listening and speaking called the Communistar that will be of great help in your conversation.
Communication in Marriage
In this week's episode of Walking Our Talk, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss the importance of communication in marriage. Often times, communication issues rise from simple misunderstandings. Learn how to resolve these issues by learning this new skill set.
Expectations in Relationships
One of the biggest hurdles in marriage is the expectation of your spouse to fulfill all of your needs. In this week’s podcast, we talk about how to maintain reasonable expectations for our partner.
More on Communication
In this week's podcast, Alan and Pauly Heller discuss the powerful meaning behind vows in marriage. What exactly are you committing to?
The Key Of Commitment
In this week's episode, Alan and Pauly Heller talk about the key component of any relationship - commitment. It's important not to stretch yourself too thin and make sure you commit adequate time to your spouse, especially in times of need.
The Friendship Room
Do you and your spouse make time for each other at home? It's important to work on your friendship in marriage so you can develop a cozy "friendship" room in your house.